Thursday, May 22, 2008

Emotional Mindfulness


We all go through different kinds of emotions in a day...obviously the degree to which each one of us go through varies.....and again they are not subject to reason but may be immediately subject to action...probably these emotions that we go through everyday gathers and lifts us up and this is perhaps the highest morality we can instill...at the same time some emotions don't make a lot of noise, its hard to hear pride ...saying this reminds me of what my sister told me couple of days back....this is how it goes..."Read your blog to mom ( about Mother's Day) and she started crying"...I knew that when I was writing the blog about my mom I was emotional and in tears but when heard my feeling at that time was a deeper truth, lead me astray!

And having said that and coming to think of it, I question to myself "What are emotions"? Emotions are energy that we feel in our bodies as physical sensations. Each of us feels our emotions differently, and each of us learned to put names to the various physical sensations that are caused by the energy of our emotional state. In modern times the subject of emotion has become part of the subject matter of several scientific disciplines-biology, sociology, anthropology etc. An interesting phenomena is that when we put ourselves mentally into a person or situation, we experience the emotions of that person more strongly....Purpose of emotions: they certainly have significant effect on us...but what is it all for? .....may be connect good emotions and eliminate the bad ones, signals telling you something about what is happening in the inner you....emotions will not go away, but we can learn to manage them. We all have emotions, and we must deal with them, but we cannot trust them! Why? because emotions are our greatest enemy. More than anything, Satan uses our emotions against us to keep is from walking in the spirit. We know the mind is the battlefield-the place where the battle is waged between the spirit and the soul. I have read that when emotion pulsates, the mind becomes deceived, and conscience is denied its standard of judgment. Emotions urge us towards haste.

Therefore "To me, there are three things we all should do everyday. We should do this everyday of our lives. Number one is laugh. You should laugh everyday. Number two is think. You should spend sometime in thought. And number three is, you should have your emotions moved to tears, could be happiness or joy. But think about it. If you laugh, you think, and you cry, that's a full day. That's a heck of a day. You do that seven days a week, you're going to have something special" as quoted by Jim Valvano!

17 comments:

Anonymous said...

I laugh, I cry & I am lost in thoughts. If I do that every day I am going to end up in hospital. Just kidding.Avi

Anonymous said...

Thought-provoking write up. Thanks Rinaya--Amira

Anonymous said...

Quick question, how do v control emotions? anyone??
Jerry

Anonymous said...

Jerry,
Substitute drinking water with beer. When you reach nirvana state, you are free of emotions.

Steve

Anonymous said...

Nice article Rinaya. Sorry I was hiding for few days:-)
++Sonam

Anonymous said...

I totally agree with Rinaya.
It is important to let emotions/feelings flow through. Otherwise, the walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keeps out the joy. I am sure, many of you would have noticed that emotions aren't always immediately subject to reason, but they are always immediately subject to action.

At the end of the day, it's all about heart & head. How much do you want to control ? In order to overcome negative emotions like anger and hatred, one must develop love and compassion.

NEEDS

Anonymous said...

Women express their emotions more openly than men. But both feel the same thoughts.
Cathy

Anonymous said...

Very true... when it comes to feelings and emotions, women use their hearts and men (seldom) use their heads.

Erica

Anonymous said...

Heart without emotions, mind without desires and body without disease; all are hard to come by. But we can try & control each of them. --Stan

Anonymous said...

Good article, Rinaya. Enjoy the long week end.
Let's pause and salute our brave soldiers.

--Bob

Anonymous said...

I see this website was active for 3months for I am visiting first time. Read more than 10 articles and I like all contants very much. keep up the good job and service to man kind.
Yu-ming

Anonymous said...

Hi there,
I heard you guys are enjoying long week end ? Every month ??

Take care and hope Risha has completely recovered by now.

Tanya, Simran & Raj

Anonymous said...

Yes, time to remember those who laid their lives, sacrificed everything for the freedom that we enjoy today.
Tim

Anonymous said...

Great read, thanks
Cheers
++Vikran

Anonymous said...

All,
Don't forget to celebrate Memorial Day. Let's salute our soldiers fighting for our safety & freedom.
-Todd

Anonymous said...

Life is all about ups & downs. Emotions play an important part to cooldown the extreme effects on our body.

karen

Anonymous said...

Hey Rinaya, haven't heard from you in a while with new blogs. Taking some time off ? Take care, Erica