Monday, April 21, 2008

Time-Brisk Wind!

Same time last year I was struggling with my big belly, swollen foot, heart burns, etc. ....Reason: in a family way with the second one!....very close to anticipating her birth as "a fresh twist to a knot".....Longing for the day when I could physically carry the baby in my arms...another adventure about to begin...more than that thinking when I could finally be over and done with and lose all those weight.....today I feel like I'm a free bird...lost all those weight, over and done with two kids, all I need to concentrate now on-is to raise them well, provide them the right values and education, shape them up as a better individual....

Thanks to the Government and their great system of giving one year maternity leave to all pregnant mom's. I have thoroughly enjoyed this one year ( still have 3 months to go back to work)...My real comfort of staying at home lies in-when I see my kids are taken care of- well fed, had their share of afternoon naps, took them out for activities, studies are taken care of ....overall the entire house is taken care of....and some time to myself...Again this is not a debate between working mothers and stay-at home mom's but a thought that this has been one of the greatest year so far....didn't leave a single stone unturned....each moment had its sickle-emulous.....like Ann Richards quoted "There is a lot more to life than just struggling to make money"

"Time flies on restless pinions"...didn't even come to know how one year of mat leave is almost coming to an end...passed in a blur...and "sometimes every second was significant etched in my mind".... Reminds me of a J.K Rowling quote which goes like this... "It's a strange thing, but when you are dreading something, and would give anything to slow down time, it has a disobliging habit of speeding up"......the little one is now almost nine months old...she's handful of sand now, the tighter you grasp the faster she runs through my fingers...and the elder one soon going to Grade One..Wow! ...and it is this time that will remind me of all the cherished moments, will remind me of how I have lived it .....this one year have helped me to understand better than before, how infinitely rich and beautiful life is in every way...."every minute spent is an hour earned"!

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

What, you took the entire year alone ? Poor Dad, didn't get any parental leave !!!OK, next time he gets 6 months:-)

NEEDS

Anonymous said...

You canadians are lucky ! I wish we could get 1 year in the US too. It's really worth the break.

Rebecca

Anonymous said...

Yup, 9 months of struggle & 12 months of break. If only that sounds that simple, it is still lot of work taking care of the new baby. Don't they say "after the baby's birth your entire life revolves around them ?". --Carole

Anonymous said...

Good, through your blog we are learning a lot about Canada. Too bad, we've already had our share of kids ;0)

Vikas Narula

Anonymous said...

Rinaya, I heard you not only get 1 year vacation but also get paid by the government to take care of kids. Very nice, enjoy your time.
Priya

Anonymous said...

Nice articles. I must say your style is improving by the day. Sorryyyyy, been a bit busy last few days.

Tanya,Simran & Raj

Thinkpad said...

Rinaya,
You write very well on a whole gamut of topics. Versatality & creativity at its best. Who's the inspiration for keeping the blog brimming with interest ? Just curious...
Thinkpad

Anonymous said...

Aside from the fact that it is a lot of stress for the parents, it is the most beautiful moments of our lives... watching the bundle of joy grow. Nice article indeed.
~Steve

Anonymous said...

Rinaya, enjoy 3 more months of vacation.

Mohit

Anonymous said...

Agree, mat leave is the boon to to any Mom who has gone through the pain for 9 months.

Cathy

Anonymous said...

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Rupert

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Anonymous said...

I like both the posts, but this one is my favorite.

In Australia, the government is still looking in to paid maternity leave scheme be funded by the federal Government. Currently we get 1 year unpaid parental leave with one-off payment of $4,000. You Canadians are lucky. Enjoy..

Erica

Anonymous said...

I can imagine if they make this 1 year mat leave universal !!! In some countries (come'on, you know it) there will be only men working in offices :-) & the women are busy at home year after year..Manoj

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